Friday, January 25, 2008

Where have I been?

I've been in my own little world. I was in Canada for three weeks over Christmas and New Years. I've told Casey that it's over and that I want a divorce.

Yeah... the 'D' word (no the other 'd' word). I've been trying to sort out what is going to happen to me after the fact and to make sure I still have a job after it's done. I haven't filed papers yet (doesn't matter when I do it cos Casey will not contest it) since I'm trying to get everything in order beforehand. To make matters more stressful I've got an audiogram coming up soon that I'm trying to "prepare" for.

On the BIID front: I've been meaning to make a post about the inadequacies of words like 'need' and 'want' and 'desire' with respect to those afflicted by BIID but my focus of late is entirely on dealing with the situation at hand.

Life for me is very stressful as of late. Life is very much "same shit different day"


Anonymous said...

hi there, I've just spent a couple of hours reading your blog, it's been very enlightening. I'm sorry to hear about you and Casey. I'd like to ask you some questions, but not sure whether to post them here or email you first.

I recently lost all of my hearing so I can possibly shed some light into the transition from the hearing to the deaf world. Could you let me know the best method to communicate with you about this?

Many thanks.

Marie said...

Hi, you can email me at